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Saying Goodbye to Aunt Ida

Posted by Bonnie on 31st August 2010

Aunt Ida wasn’t my aunt by blood and I haven’t seen her in years, but like anyone who spent any time with her, it was clear that a blood connection was totally unnecessary to feel her warmth and compassion.

As a kid, I spent all my summers at my grandfather’s bungalow colony, Oakwood Cottages, just 7 miles outside our town and for some of those summer we were joined by  my cousin Howie’s family and members of his clan on his father’s side so I got to know his aunts, uncles, grandparents, and cousins very well.  It was exciting to get to know a clan because I didn’t have  a family clan.  My dad had one sister and my mom’s sister Gilda was the only one living in the United States. so it was exciting to watch and get to know this one.

Over time, Ida became the heart and center of this family.  For Passover, Chanukah, and Purim, Ida’s apartment in Brooklyn was the destination for her brother, sister their kids partners and then the next generation.

It’s been years since I’ve seen Ida, but I remember her kindness to me, but more important, what she meant to my cousin Howie and this family.  It was remarkable to be with everyone yesterday, supporting my cousins and their grown children and the clan beyond blood.

It was a hot day and a long car trip to Brooklyn for the funeral and then to Farmingdale, Long Island for the burial and then back home again but I’m so glad I was present to pay my respects for a life well lived. Ida had a room filled with family aching with loss.  Even in the heat of the day, as she stood at the burial spot no one moved to leave.  Lingering together, I wondered can this family find a new center?

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Ed Investigating Reporter at Your Service!

Posted by Bonnie on 10th August 2010

I  recently read a pair of articles in the   NY Times: Lesson Plan in Boston Schools:Don’t Go it Alone and Inexperienced Companies Chase U.S. School Funds and I’m thinking a lot about a conversation I had last week with my former student/friend Alison and her partner Sarah as I continue to dig into the latest wave in educational reform. After reading Diane Ravitch’s blistering attack in her latest book, The Death and Life of the Great American School System, against the federal approach to educational reform, the reality seems to support her work and my greatest fears.

Both young women, passionate and committed to teaching, began their careers  in at charter school led by a former teacher, who created a small community of young teachers who felt welcomed and supported.  As Alison, the theater/art teacher, prepared her students for a performance, her principal came to her with open arms offering her anything she needed. As her former director, I could relate to that need for administrative support and it was wonderful when a principal worked with you.

Both Sarah and Alison worked hard in their first years without a union behind them, but they were a part of a great community of teachers but when her first principal teacher left the school, he was replaced by a school manager, who rapidly destroyed the sense of community and demanded total control and obedience and the teacher and parent moral was destroyed with one fell blow and soon Alison was looking for a new job.  She found one in a public school in a tough section of Boston and without administrative and faculty support she was lost in an elective theater classroom. So it isn’t just Charter vs Public School in this educational war, but there’s a wind blowing through that’s creating serious insecurity in the teaching profession.

The Times articles support the need for educated administration and the need for teacher respect and support.  Teachers in the Boston public school system now can be moved from school to school each year at the whim of the system. So yes, there’s still some job security but under the pressure of  federal educational reform, the state’s Democratic Governor and legislature, to win Race to the Top funds sold our their teachers and their unions.

Now Alison will be teaching part-time in a small Catholic School in the fall and even though she has to suppliment her income with non-teaching part time jobs to she is looking forward to teaching art and directing theater because the school leadership and staff are welcoming her.  Sarah, a math teacher, has also left the charter school where they first met, for a brand new charter.  She will be making good money and so far the staff is just being hired so the jury is out as to how positive the experience will be.

In my 30 years,I spnet half my teaching career in a school with good to fair administrators and union leaders who didn’t care very much about education. They were working for teacher benefits.  But  the second half of my career was spent at Pearl River where serious teachers  led the union and worked cooperatively with some great, some good  and few fair administrators.  Our  staff was a good one.  Some great teachers, lots of good teachers, some fair and a few lazy ones.  The adminstrators were all former teachers and not managers. Many left a strong bond with the community and for the most part supported, the staff.

It was good to have a supportive administrator, colleagues on your wave length, and union leaders behind you.  As I think back to my teaching life, the world of my classroom was supported by the school community just outside the door.

Sadly, I worry that many dedicated teachers will be beaten down and forced to leave the profession or have to accept the will of the unedcated to keep their jobs. I’m worried.

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NaNoWriMo Day 17 & Slice of Life Tuesday

Posted by Bonnie on 17th November 2009

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Lots of challenges working together.  Everybody getting along?  Fantastic!

I am feeling ready to travel with my NaNoWriMo challenge!  I’ve been pushing myself to keep going with my story and I am over 30,000 now and feeling like I have lots of words to keep going to the finish line and then some. I really can’t believe that I’m here.

I can’t imagine writing like this if I was working full time.  Honestly, I couldn’t.  I remember myself at the end of the day with lots of papers to read still and just exhausted.  I write at my best, early in the morning, right now at 6:30.  I could never write if I had a full day of school coming, so I feel for anyone trying this challenge with the pressures of school.

For me, this has been a great challenge.  I am writing about what I know, the history of my relationship with Tuvia and with Israel, often they merge together.

At the moment I am writing from Tuvia’s point of view.  I remember a great novel by Carol Shields.  Half the book is told from the wife’s point of view. Then you turn the book to the other cover and read the same story from her husband’s pov.  I’m trying that now and feeling free to get into Tuvia’s/Asher’s mind.

I even took the risk and read some of the moments aloud to Tuvia and he liked it.  I am taking some creative license but men don’t seem to remember the events in the same detail that women do.  Am I being sexist here?

But it feels right to him and that’s a big sign of support.

I think I loved week 2 of my writing.  My moments went deeper and I stayed longer.  The scenes from his pov are even longer and deeper.

I am on my way to Philly today, traveling with my HVWP buddy, Jackie.  There will be lots of writing distractions for the next few days, but as long as I have this computer with me, I can click to my story.  I’m figuring that I can find a few hours when I have to.

I’m sure Philly has cafes right?

And on Friday morning I’m having face-to-face breakfast with Stacey and Ruth. How about that?  Photos to share next week!

Bonnie

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